Being Shit Tested

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Matt G Avatar

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Matt G Avatar

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Backstory: Saw on my good guy friend's (moved to another state, is in a serious LT relationship) IG an 8.5-9 that kept commenting on his pictures. I asked my friend who she was and if I could name drop him when I slid into her DMs. He said of course, he'd back me up, he even reached out to her to say how awesome I am. We exchanged DMs back and forth for a few days, then got her number, texted back and forth another few days, then things stopped. This was back in November. Thought I'd reach out to her again last week, and set a time up for drinks for this evening (planned 4 days in advance).
Fast forward to today, she texts me an hour ago saying that something has come up w/ work and she has to postpone our first meeting. I'm bummed, but I haven't responded or opened the message yet. What's the play here? What's the likelihood this is a shit test as opposed to a real life bump in the road?

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avilench . Avatar

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I’d need to see the screenshots to answer definitively, but I doubt it’s a shit test. Just schedule for another night. No need to overthink. Also, I’m a bit confused on the back story. This is your friends ex gf?

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Matt G Avatar

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Not friend's ex-gf. My friend is good friends with her brother. We set up the date over the phone, so there aren't any texts aside from her cancelling tonight.

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avilench . Avatar

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Gotcha. Yea I wouldn’t make it a big deal. Just reschedule

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