Beach as a 2nd date, yay or nay
Had a fun first date with a chick a week ago.
It was pretty sexually charged but logistics weren’t there to close the deal.
ReInitiated yesterday and she first asked about my weekend plans. I pitched meeting up on Saturday.
She agreed adding that she’ll be going to the beach early in the day. I added with a flirt that if she’s inviting me I’ll make sure put in extra pumps in the gym to look good for our date.
She told me it’s cool if I’d like to join.
However now I’m having second thoughts as the beach is 50 minutes away from either of our places and logistics for try closing the deal afterwards will be awful. Likely after the beach she’ll want to shower and we live in opposite directions from the beach.
So I’m thinking of bailing on the beach idea with an excuse and instead suggesting an evening meet in my area. What do you guys think?
It could go either way. You say it was already sexually charged, so being half-naked on the beach, kissing, putting sun cream on etc., seeing other people can be a massive turn on.
I feel like you're overthinking a bit and are worried too much about logistics. The two of you will be horny after the beach. It'll work out ;)
If she is down to meet at the beach, chances are she'll be down to meet at the place with better logistics
Funny enough the beach is where I like to meet girls as you get to see their body first. But I live like a few minutes away from it so that obviously helps
I'd be interested to hear how you approach them there? Girls lying on the beach or walking along?
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If you dont want to go to the beach, dont go to the beach. If you dont think the beach is a good place to spend time with a girl you recently met (its not) then dont go. If going to the beach is inconvenient for you (it is) then dont go. She is definitely going to bring her friends and she might even talk to other men at the beach.
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Glad to report it worked out for the better.
Weather wasn’t cooperating so she came over and I closed the deal. Easy peasy.