Asking for favour then disappearing
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5 Cmts
3mo ago
We have met a few times but still trying to close. I’m travelling and she asked me to get a top.
Her - could you go top shopping for me in Italy? Lol
Me - sure. What style?
Her - something yellow and simple. Anything else you find cute
Me - cool
I sent her a bunch of pictures a few days later and no reply for 3 days
She does this hot/cold texting sometimes. Planning re engage in a few days
Firetext - love the enthusiasm, ah I see you’re speecless
Any other suggestion? Or any types callout since its a repeating pattern of this type of texting?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
oh man, you made a big mistake agreeding to go shopping for her. That's like girlfriend / boyfriend behavior. Not something you do for some chick you hung out with a few times
I think it might be cooked. How many dates have you had where you diddnt close? and also post the last few screenshots so we can get a better idea
83 Posts (+4), 162 Cmts (+31)
yeah I did lol. Oh well. She did reply saying "wow, that's a lot. thanks for options". I am just not going to reply now since she said this after 3 days. I should've teased it initially then simply agreeing to it. I was genuinely trying to help and not thinking game stuff. We had 4 dates. But thanks man!
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
yea but unfortunately, you friend zoned yourself. First off you need to be closing on the first or second date. That goes without saying. But yea due to that and the shopping thing she's just treating you like a simp. Just gotta live and learn bro