Are instant dates worth your time?

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Have been doing daygame since I was 17, and only started trying for instant dates recently since I'm a bit better now and an old advanced wing of mine back in Seattle used to do instant or near-instant dates all the time. The first one I ran went well and she responded to my first text, but when I was trying to set up a date in person she didn't give me a time and she didn't respond after I asked when she was free to meet up.

I had an opportunity to do an instant date again yesterday with a sexy latina, but chose to set a date and get her number instead so I could keep gaming and because it seemed solid enough. Set a sexual frame, DHV'd, talked to her for a few minutes, and she seemed into it. However, she hasn't responded to my first text yet so I'm not sure if i-dating would have been the right move. Thought interaction was long enough but maybe not.

Basically, there seems to be a sweet spot with how much time to invest into each good daygame interaction to make the number solid, but there's probably diminishing returns since it's harder to pull from daygame, and if you bounce too soon she won't be down. It's also hard for me to tell since it seems to be dependent on the girl. Like nightgame, that large amount of time spent on one girl (who might not convert) could be used to hit on other girls instead.

Do you think it's worth doing instant dates, and if so when?

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avilench . Avatar

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this is up for debate in the pickup community guys who i know who are really good believe in instant dates but personally im not a fan i never do instant dates. i just get the girls phone number and go from there

in general the majority of your results will come from nightgame, daygame is just going to have a lower success rate. the one time where i think instant date makes more sense is when the girl is a tourist and the girl is in your city for a few days.

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until i fix the looks things you told me (beard + more muscle), if i want to have a good sleep schedule but similar quality that you'd get from cold approach, is the only other option instagram then?

nightgame is more efficient but i hate how late you have to stay up since i have a 9-5 and other ambitions so i like to be up at 6am, and social circle takes a lot of time + i'd rather not be dependent on that.

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avilench . Avatar

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theres always dating apps and you can nightgame much earlier. just look up happy hours in your area. you can game from 6 to 8

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