You asked her to qualify herself twice when the first failed is the problem. This will be hard to recover and your best bet is to not try to escalate/qualify (asking her to earn working for you or whatever) until you've established an at least positive/neutral vibe. Maybe an "if you're into that sorta thing" is in order lol.
100% agree with this. Send "if you're into that sorta thing" or "if that's cool" and wait a few days. If she doesn't respond send "Dear diary, cute girl disappeared. Should I send a search party?" If she doesn't respond again then let her go. Like Tiger said, it's gonna be hard to recover
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You asked her to qualify herself twice when the first failed is the problem. This will be hard to recover and your best bet is to not try to escalate/qualify (asking her to earn working for you or whatever) until you've established an at least positive/neutral vibe. Maybe an "if you're into that sorta thing" is in order lol.
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100% agree with this. Send "if you're into that sorta thing" or "if that's cool" and wait a few days. If she doesn't respond send "Dear diary, cute girl disappeared. Should I send a search party?" If she doesn't respond again then let her go. Like Tiger said, it's gonna be hard to recover
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Thank you both!