"Don't worry it's not a trick question. And happy new year🎊"

Hmm the "Maybe hair pulling and spanking..." is good when your profile is sexual
Based on her answer, it doesn't seem like it
And when she explicitely tells you that, you said "no".... not a good start

To be honest, when a girl asks me "what are you looking for on here", I just answer "Meet a cool girl I have chemistry with" unless I have a solid sexual profile

Wait a few days and use the "don't worry, it's not a trick question" like Rhaegar is life said