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Is she right? Were you struggling to lead the convo? No worries if so but I would say it's pretty unlikely you'll get another date if shes already decided there wasnt a good vibe. I think the best you can do is be genuine and say if you were shy or had your mind on other things or whatever happened. Shouldnt try to game her at this point
Not a shit test. Genuine concern she is stating. This is probably a hard one to get out to be honest since you dropped the ball.
Not everything is a shit test. She's giving you honest feedback. Girls like a man who can take lead. Once an in person impression has been made, you can't "textgame" your way into changing that
So, how was that date?
Tell us
We went out, had a drink, then went to the park, then to my place, we had some tea, had kisses at my place but she had the tea and left immediately.
I think it went normal, didn't look like something is wrong, except maybe that she bounced quickly of my place.
It's the first time girl telling me this, I guess it's her blueprint and might be a different personality. That's why I said it's a shit test, but as I understand it's real. Anyway, have any thoughts what to reply?
I wouldn't call this a shit-test either.
Something was missing for her on the date.
Maybe you didn't smoothly move things along for her.
In my experience, it's not worth the effort once someone has made their mind up, AND they've already met you in person.
I had this recently from cold approach.
Good date, back my place, I didn't escalate because I thought there was a time constraint.
And this was on-on. Like she texted me when she got home, "Can't help but keep thinking about those kisses" type of thing.
Another date, I didn't move it along that nicely.
Boom, "I'm not feeling the chemistry".
You're done.
