Unfortunately, quite unsalvageable. Unmatch, hope you match again one day in future, and in the meantime work on your text game so you can be better next time around.
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Would this also apply since it ́s somewhat similar?
chit chatted back and forth going well her telling me her schedule without me asking for it (12h shifts 4days and then 4days off) also asks questions back "how about you" etc
and then after fw back and forths I ask her if she has whatsapp to switch to there and she writes me good morning then some text with "Yes I have whatsapp, Give me your number I ́ll text you" ) (at 5am) So not sure what kind of shift she is on... So I gave her the number and same day later in the evening still nothing no big deal to me since I had shit to do and then I dropped her a short message later that evening and she replied back with "Hey I`m sorry I ́ve been really busy. It ́s a mess right now" ?! That was 2 days ago, so I left it at that...Could she really be "busy" and going through some shit or nicely telling me to eff off...
Usually I would take that as a "unmatch" from my side...
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Thanks. So I understand where you're coming from... where did you come-up with unmatch instead of just leave the match be as a strategy?
Given theres no way to salvage this, you'd rather have her forget it and start off on a clean slate. In the past when my text game has been awful, Ive burned alot of leads. If you unmatch they can occasionally they pop up again on your feed, and they probably wont remember the conversation but will still think youre hot. As long as you didn't do something outrageously insulting or weird, they wont remember the convo and will prob rematch. Assuming youve improved your text game (be proactive in this regard), theres a much higher chance to get them out at that point. As opposed to doing more bad shit now that paints you into more memorable 'shitty match' territory. Theres a chance you never match again, but this is still best shot for a burned lead imo
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Yea man unfortunately it’s likely done. Also, this is very poor text game. No offense. Way too over gamey and erratic. Also, the number close is extremely premature. Check out some of the texting guides I have on the site
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No offense taken. Appreciate the reply. I'll check them out. Thanks!