This is the foreign girl who met me at an Irish pub last Friday after like 30 texts back and forth, kept trying to push 8:30 to 7 pm, I finally agreed to 7:30 and was on time, she shows up 15 minutes late(!) And "not her fault", of course...but then we had a great time even tho she only drank free water for 3:hours occupying a seat at the bar. Great parking lot make out. she was hot, one of my acquaintances who was there keeps gushing about her.

She works 7 days a week and, very annoyingly, is trying to establish that she just might flake (cancel) at any time if she's too tired. like a guy should just accept that is her frame. With her foreign background, that may be semi legit (she thinks men should pay for women, buy them food on 1st dates, but again foreign so it doesn't seem like a parasite mindset, just traditional)...but also seems super narcissistic and inconsiderate of my time, like I'll be standing by not making other plans while she reserves the right to cancel.

At least she's being up front about it days in advance, she's not a horrible chick, just very high maintenance and needs a lot of hand holding to meet up. but the lack of respect or even basic consideration for my time is not ok with me. Advice would be great