H
15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
Seems strange that it was her birthday. Girls take those so serious and I'm surprised if she would have actually been down to meet up 1-on-1 with a guy she hardly knows.
I would just message a couple days after and try to go out with her.
J
26 Posts (+32), 186 Cmts (+99)
That what I was thinking I dont think it was anything he said that made her change her mind
D
5 Posts (+1), 34 Cmts (+23)
She seemed dtf. This was just poor closing. Did not go for the hard close.
7 Posts (+5), 347 Cmts (+123)
That last message of yours was weak and put the decision into her hands again. She was up to meet. You only needed to say a time and place.
4 Posts (+5), 111 Cmts (+49)
I agree with Herb, you had it in the bag and she told you what she wanted to do. Also depending on how she read the first line of the message, it could’ve come off as defensive.