Hey guys, so I have a girlfriend and we text everyday.
I'm aware of texting killing relationships so I try to text as little as possible, the problem is my girl insists on texting being important and has even told me she wants me to text her more. I agreed to text a bit more at the time, but I've been texting her about 5 times a day ever since.
Now I realize this is a mistake, ideally from what I've heard, texting everyday is very bad in the long term, but I don't know how to handle it when my gf is not aware of this. Basically a classic case of wanting something but needing something else.
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I wouldn't say texting daily when in a relationship is inherently bad, I was with my ex for 4 years and we texted every day, just try to make sure whatever you do text is relevant and necessary to send, holding yourself back if you don't want to or forcing yourself to text more than you want to is just going to cause you needless stress