Am I missing something here?

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Michael Styles Avatar

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Michael Styles Avatar

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Continuation of a previous post asking what to do after a no response:

I followed up with an "hola linda" to get it going. She bites down immediately.

I freeze because I'm in my head too much of figuring out what to say, as in, should I flirt now?

I drop the next line "is that the emoji that grabs booty? if so thanks" - playful misinterpretation

She goes " Lol I never saw it that way, I like it" (joy emoji) - This looks like shes rewarding the vibe

I want to drill it down a bit further sexually so I go "guess you're the innocent type (smirk emoji)" - I do this because I'm guessing shes not dirty enough to think those thoughts

She responds with "I come off that way (blush emoji) - I was trying to read inbetween the lines and drop this:

Me: "Oh is that so" - thinking of doing a takeaway. Right after I sent it I thought it wasnt a good idea. Maybe should've rewarded?

Her: Lol what do you think? (boom good time to tell her what she is like)

Me; Cute with innocent vibes, but with a wild side

Her: "Sounds like me (angel)"

Me: Love it. We should combine our wild sides sometime soon - I wanted to reward her answer and move it forward. Not sure if I did this well at all.

She stops responding.

I'm now back in the "lets wait 48 hours before re-engaging"

TL:DR - tried to banter/sexualize and move forward but again no response.

Question

  • What could I have done better here? More vibing? (She cold approached me with her friend last Friday. We follow each other on Instagram)
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25 Posts (+8), 75 Cmts (+22)

I forget if you met this chick yet... but if not I would’ve closed with “do you like wine”. IMO your line is way too much in the sense that the girl thinks you only want sex. (Many are into it) But won’t work on this girl is playing the “innocent frame. Now all you can do is wait..

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Michael Styles Avatar

4 Posts (+6), 48 Cmts (+17)

Appreciate the feedback, Camilo.

Yes, I did meet her in person. She actually opened me at a bar.

I agree that my text was maybe, too sexual.

Now, time to let it sit and find new girls to chat with :)

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

your overthinking this hardcore dude. If you dont hear back from her you can hit her with the nervous text

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Michael Styles Avatar

4 Posts (+6), 48 Cmts (+17)

Thanks Alex.

She ignored both texts, but has hit me up a few times on Instagram, a few reactions to stories and an actual written out reply. None acknowledging the text.

Wondering if I should continue on Insta or push for a text convo?

Thanks!

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

honestly either or is fine man,

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