Almost all of my matches aren't responding
On Tinder and Hinge, the "hey trouble" opener is getting almost no responses. Or I'm getting a one word reply and then silence. On Bumble, 1/8 of my matches messaged me today.
Is the apocalypse happening? lol
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Lol it’s probably just a bad day man. I get moments sometimes where it seems like every chick is flaking or ghosting, then the next day I get a flood of responses. How long has this been going on for? And how many matches do you get a day?
Something I gotta work on to fix: Sometimes I'll open and run MANY matches at once and it will come to a point where I've responded to all of the girls, yet NONE have responded to me and it's been like an hour or 2. then suddenly BAM! heaps respond. Must admit it feels good hahaha
On hinge I get around 3-5 matches a day. On tinder 1-2 at most. Bumble 1-2 as well. The past week in particular has been poor.
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Tbh that’s pretty low man. I would focus also on pumping out your profile to increase that to 10 a day
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Wait 2 days.. re-engage with a cliff hanger... i.e "Can I ask you something kind of fucked up?" or "I just had the weirdest thought about you" .. then when they respond take the convo back into whatever direction you want .. .. "Before I tell you my weird thought.. do you like wine?" blah blah blah.