alex, what do you do when girls want a commitment
36 Posts (+13), 199 Cmts (+70)
this is a problem i’ve always had. no matter how i frame things after hooking up a few times girls always want more.
for me the best fuck buddies are girls i’ve never taken on a date. they’ll be like “can we ever like go out to eat or something.” i shut that shit down and it’s cool. i keep my distance.
but for retention i find way better results when we went on a date. and i like dates. but when you’re doing fun things with girls they always want to move things towards being boyfriend and girlfriend. the only solution i’ve found is downgrading them from fwb to fb. but i like fwbs. it seems like an impossible relationship to manage though.
24 Posts (+193), 234 Cmts (+299)
I used to have this problem with girls in the past when they’d pressure me into a relationship & I’d cave into their Frame in fear of loosing them. Especially if you dick em down good more than once. For the most part now when they bring up the topic of exclusivity I act stupid as if I were daydreaming & then respond with the following
“Excuse me what were you saying? For some odd strange reason I was just thinking about my ex girlfriend” it short circuits their brain lmfao or you can either say “You’re moving things way too fast. Don’t complicate things & let’s just continue having fun”
Men are & have always been the true romantics & 99% or Men out there are the ones to bring up the topic of being in a relationship. And women will often resort to saying things like “let’s not rush things” or “let’s take it slow, let’s not complicate things” hope this helps broski. Just brush it off and be indifferent & aloof to the effect of it 🔥🔥
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Hmm with one of my Booty calls I have her cook various dishes for us when we hang out. Definitely adds to the fun. Or, I’ll do game night with my roommate. Shit like that. Lots of activities you can do without going on a real date
7 Posts (+2), 32 Cmts (+9)
In my experience I've never taken em on proper dates. We just party and meet up at nights to fuck so the girls usually know what is happening. The few times a chick has tried to push it further i just prolong it, say shit like 'we should give it more time to see how we grow' and all that bs.
The thing is, eventually she's gonna get sick of your games and leave. Its inevitable. I just keep abundance and do what i can to prolong the inevitable end. And if you still manage to end on good terms and she finds a new bf, breaks up chances are she'll come back at one point or another. All just my experience so far tho. Most girls tend to know already i just wanna fuck