About a year and a half ago I was getting close to 0 likes on tinder so I watched all of Alex's videos like I was studying for my exam finals. Since then I have replaced every single one of my photos with ones that were specifically taken for tinder and have made massive improvements since. I am decently good looking and 5'10 ( Pretty sure im 5'9 but I say 5'10) but only actually got results when I started using better photos. Ill be honest, it doesn't matter if your friends and family and grandma say you are handsome if you look average in your photos. You are competing with the best of the best on Tinder and the only thing girls have to make a judgement about you is your photos so they need to be perfect.
Look hot in your photos and you will get more matches, less flaking and honestly you don't have to deal with nearly as many shit tests.
Get a friend and borrow a DSLR camera. Go to Zara and buy basic fuckboy clothes and jewellery. Go take 300 photos in the poses that Alex suggested in his videos, and realistically edit one until you are sure that you look hot.
Phone game is very important for setting up the first date, but a girl is not even going to let you try and seduce her if she doesn't find you more attractive than the average guy sliding into her dms.
If it is impossible for you to look good in photos then you need to work on yourself. Hit the gym, get a new haircut, get a skincare routine and throw out your old clothes. There is no one who will make these changes for you and the only variable you can alter in the dating game is yourself. So be the best version of yourself.