Age old scenario...she refused dates but keeps watching my stories

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As you might’ve seen from previous threads, had a girls number off the app and was trying to see her but she was a major pain to make plans with. Making excuses like I’m
Not tall enough etc. I just basically resorted to trolling her while I focused on speaking to other girls but the last week I decided to try one last time and it didn’t really work. I over invested with the trolling as well to be fair since I didn’t really give a shit at that point. But I gave her a straight up takeway saying I’ll leave her alone for good if she wasn’t down and she didn’t seem enthusiastic so I just dropped it.

But she keeps on watching my stories, which I know means nothing but I’m thinking to troll her about it maybe and see.

Maybe say something like “if I’m on your mind just say so”.

Like I said, it’s a low investment lead on my end since I have other options but what do you guys think?

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avilench . Avatar

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It's important how you dealt with the height thing. If you didn't pass her test, the attraction isn't probably high enough. Yeah. You can send that text but I wouldn't expect much. As a side note, either troll and don't expect it to work. Or keep your intentions clear and move things forward while dealing with tests and objections

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M

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I done it for the shits and ended up going down a rabbit hole. Some of these girls are truly broke and messed up in the head unfortunately. What’s amazing to me is that a few weeks ago I got a girl to meet me no fuss for a casual date and she was 10x more attractive (didn’t close but I’m working on her still). This girls nice don’t get me wrong, but not on the other ones level, it’s just ironic to me how the more attractive girl made it much more easier.

When she said she’ll block me I said do what you gotta do and she blocked me. I knew it had ran it’s course.

This girl seems like a time waster and a major brat in one, damaged beyond repair..what’s your guys thoughts?

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M S Avatar

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Yea fuck that noise man. That type of girl is always a massive timewaster.

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avilench . Avatar

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Yeah. This is some poor textgame. Unnecessary frame battles. Not being lighthearted. Take a look at some of the videos on guides on texting on the yt and my free website

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M

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I ain’t blocked on sms, just blocked on WhatsApp. Is there any way I can try and see if she’ll take the bait if I try to reengage and get her to unblock?

I realise now reading through the texts I was being too literal with my trolling I should’ve kept it humorous.

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I need some help here with this girl. So after she blocked me a few weeks later I found her profile and sent a like and she accepted. Obviously if there was no interest at all she’d have not accepted my like on hinge, but we’re going back and forth on why she don’t unblock me. It’s clear I failed a few shit tests but I think we had enough chemistry for me to salvage this one.

How can I navigate this?

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This girl blocked me a couple weeks ago, and I tried the phone method Alex recommended that works pretty well, but got no response. Im hindsight I see where I went wrong here. My problem is when I troll I go all out and end up fucking it up, when I should’ve just tried to get serious and ask her out again. We had chemistry despite all the headache which is why I want to try and salvage this.

I see her Hinge profile a few times and was thinking to send a like for her to maybe unblock as a last resort but is it worth it, and does it come off as creepy? Like I said I already tried texting from a different number a week ago, no response.

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M

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Ok so I decided to bite the bullet and send her a like on hinge since I was still blocked and she accepted 😂 there’s a bit of humour but I’m trying to get unblocked let’s see how this goes.

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