Already been on a date. High sexual tension. She became very compliant. Made out within one hour. Gave me the “I don’t come over on the first date” objection and went home. Been texting afterwards and here’s when she stopped responding. I’m positive she’ll respond if I text her, but what’s your feedback on interaction below?
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9 Posts (+5), 212 Cmts (+56)
What you sent her back doesn't make any sense. You're using lines at the wrong place, wrong time, and in the wrong context.
In different situations, these lines might've worked... But in this one it looks like you're butthurt and are trying to make up for what you said.
Be careful next time. Focus on the message you're communicating, not the lines.
9 Posts (+7), 142 Cmts (+72)
This was a shit test, so I was certainly not going to explain if I’m a player or not
15 Posts (+31), 492 Cmts (+149)
Well your first response was fine, but the "also we shouldn't be talking about sex..." was a bad move, it does seem like an ego-saver
So, you got yourself into hot water by going too far with the image
Then she throws up an objection, you do an OK job at handling, but she doubles down, meaning she is somewhat serious
In that situation what I usually do is just go along with it "I'm not just a one and done kinda guy, I like to see if there's a connection" something about seeing them again, etc
Always better to handle objections like that in person
9 Posts (+5), 212 Cmts (+56)
I understand. You did very good getting her home on the first date and getting through her objections.
Now, the lines you used were ineffective in this situation... Proof is you didn't pass her test, that's why she replied back "I hate to disapoint, but I'm not just looking for sex".
If you really wanted to use PWF style lines, you could've said :
"Me neither. It's true that I'm a very sexual guy, but that's just my personality. I'm looking to date people I have a good chemistry with, and if I find out they're the one I might settle."
Finally, you could've avoided all this by just saying "How did you know ? I love to play basketball"
You're experienced bro so I'm sure you'll turn it around, but I wanted to give you little tweaks you can add to your game to make even better interactions