Advice: girl says she was in hospital after "flakey" text

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K

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Advice on how to respond to this text? I saw a pic and she was in the hospital but, I think it's an overreaction so, I'm not going to send a big long message back to her. Thanks!

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L

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She's a liar. They pretty much all use this excuse or they say their mum is in hospital

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K

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Thanks, brother. I saw a pic and she definitely was in the hospital but still...a bit of strong reaction.

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K

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avilench . Avatar

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"Sorry to hear about the health issues. But you could have just literally told me that like a normal person instead of expecting me to magically read your mind". Unfortunately though, this is extremely low probability. Very unlikely to work

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J

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How much of interaction was there before, and with what vibe?

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K

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Just a small amount. A joke of mine made her laugh so, it was a good vibe. She was in the hospital but, I'm deciding on how much sympathy vs. not making a big deal about it.

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J

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How about:


Yup, you don't owe me anything, and I don't owe you just knowing where you have been.

Hope though, it wasn't too bad and you got well again.


And then move on, unless she replies.

(Maybe fix some grammar, I'm not a native speaker ;)

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E

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Move on she seems like a pain in the ass

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K

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For sure, it's an overreaction so, I'm thinking I can just say something and move on.

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J

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Question: is this the only screenshot of you guys talking on tinder

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K

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Yeah, she laughed at a dad joke I made so, the vibe was good. Thoughts on a response?

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J

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Dude, that was not appropriate at all for the situation. You typically would use that line if she keeps flaking or she flaked the first time without giving an explanation. With that being said, a better follow up would have been "Are you always this talkative" or something to build on what you said. But as for now, this is dead. Move onto other girls, I would just advice you to not waste your emotional energy on one chick.

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