Advice after meeting a girl in person

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J

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J

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Hey Guys,

I'm very new to this community, I had previously subscribed to a system called Endless Options which I used to get my last girlfriend. We broke up about a month ago, and I really don't find the Endless Options system to be effective anymore and am trying to navigate the app/in person dating game. I live in South Florida about an hour from Miami, and have found it super challenging to get dates or even hook up with good looking girls. I go to the gym every day for about 2-3 hours and am in good shape, and am pretty good looking (at least that's what I've been told). Enough backstory for now though.

I brought my dog to the groomer on Tuesday and there was this hot blonde girl working at reception. Was going to ask for her number when I came to pick up my dog, but it was crowded and I didn't want to put her on the spot. I ended up going back to the groomer 5 minutes before they closed. I apologized for picking my dog up late as they didn't seem to happy about it and asked the girl for her number. She gave it to me and I txted her Tuesday, but didn't get a response. Today I decided to call her around 6, since I told her I was going to call when we met anyway. No answer, and voicemail wasn't set up. I sent her a little iphone voice note, but still no response. This girl was really cute and seemed really sweet, likes animals. I'd like to try and salvage the situation if possible. The groomer is only a few minutes from where I live, but I can't just bring my dog in for another grooming when she just got groomed lol. Any advice for me?

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J

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Onto the next

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avilench . Avatar

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It seems like she was not that interested when she gave the number man. Work on other leads. Don't put pressure on the girl. It will be even riskier for her if she is caught flirting with customers

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J

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Hoping I didn't get her fired, I doubt it's related to me though

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S

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Possibly due to not building enough comfort depending on how long you spoke with her. Did you have some banter and flirt with her?

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J

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I little bit of banter, but minimal as she was closing up.

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J

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Another update. Idk what's going on here lol. She may just want me to fuck off, I'm confused. I'm still pursuing others on apps, figured I'd try to see this one out anyway

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J

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So these were all probably correct. The flirting was VERY minimal while I was there, I basically went straight for the number. Decided to shoot her the "thinking very hard I see" today and got a response within ten minutes. Looks like she got fired, or she's lying. Haven't responded yet.

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J

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I somehow matched with this girl on Facebook dating a month later. I guess she is still interested? How would you recommend I proceed if at all. If she responds to my message I plan to banted a little bit and tell her to txt me since she has my number and didn't respond to my last messages over txt.

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.Eric . Avatar

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Bro, she’s trolling you, move on

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N

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Agree, she's trolling you. Bro there are many fish in the sea, catch another one.

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