Abundant Matches, Not the Caliber I Want: Help?

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Benji Bisnov Avatar

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Friends, brothers, fellow troglodytes: I’ve learned a ton from the online blueprint, Alex’s videos, & your forum posts but I’m still new here. I’ve tailor’d my profiles based on Alex’s recommendations and get a ton of likes, but not exactly what I want.

I’m trying to market myself to 18-24 year olds, top of the heap attractive, overtly dtf or otherwise. I would be eternally grateful for any feedback, no matter how brief, on how I might target that audience better. I gotta make sure i’m not married to the way I’ve set my profiles up based on my immense ego. Also, I’m in San Antonio Texas... destitute prospects to begin with, so I have to be top .1% to get what I want here.

I’ve attached pictures of my Tinder here.

Eager to learn more from you all and become a better me. Thanks again in advance.

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avilench . Avatar

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Your profile is decent. I would get rid of 3 because it's with a girl and 5, since you don't look good in it. Also, in your bio, get rid of the part which says "But it won't last"
That's going to turn a lotta girls off. If you have some other photo options, post them below. But also, for higher quality, try bumble, hinge and fb dating

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Benji Bisnov Avatar

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Eyyy thank you so much! I just took out your suggestions & changed the bio. Would any of these make a good replacement do you think? Thank you again!

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avilench . Avatar

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Unfortunately not. The first one has that shirt you wore around your head like a nun haha. And the 3rd one is just too close to the face. The second is decent but almost the same as the other pictures you initially posted

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T

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If you only want 18-24 year olds then you just have to alter your tinder preferences to that.

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C

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The "but it wont last" in your bio is good screening but probably does harm ya a bit.

The most attractive girls I get are still from IRL game, I'd keep that option open if you can

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Benji Bisnov Avatar

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Got ya. I’ll work on that bio part, and keep the IRL in mind. Thanks brother

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T

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Your pics are not bad but they are all over the place from Party Vibe #3 to Outdoorsy #2 and #7 to family friendly #5. Also why are there two different dogs?

Ditch #4, #5, #6 it will be more what a young DTF type will look for as far as the party/adventurous vibe.

As for the Bio its a bit bland. Maybe change it to strengths and weaknesses. For strengths you can reword your line to "Been around the Block 15+ Countries and counting" and for Dominant you can say that you are 50 Shades Certified. Add other things that are playful like that. For weaknesses list the things you are looking for in a girl like Alex talks about "great ass and accents" or whatever it is for you so they qualify for you.

Hope this helps.

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Benji Bisnov Avatar

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Thoughts?

Strengths
Been around the block, 15+ countries & counting
tri-lingual
Steak & salmon
DJ (private events, occasional celebrity spot)
Dominant.

Weaknesses
A good booty & dimples

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T

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Clean up a couple of strengths to be more emotions less logic something like the below. For the DJ one you'll want to have her ask you about it so you can DHV. Also would lead off with your height.

6'

Strengths
Been around the block 15+ Countries and Trilingual
My cooking skills will wreck your diet
Great addition to any party just add a DJ booth
Dominant

Good luck brother!

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Benji Bisnov Avatar

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Just took out the pictures & I’ll work on the bio now. You’re the man. Thanks

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J

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last two pics to the front. 18-24yr will love those pics. one of the ways i've also gotten young 18-22yrs was by changing my age 32 at the time down to 24. lol. after 3 months ill tell them the truth and it would just be funny. some i forget to tell them and it would just end naturally for whatever issue. instant results would usually be outside being seen in a porsche cayenne or bmw x5. they give you automatic chosing signal, mean while i am an ugly 5 lol. the 10s still throw themselves at me when those saw me in my rentals.

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Benji Bisnov Avatar

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Mmmm, gotcha! Thank you for the feedback. I’ll definitely try to get better pics & I moved the kayak one up closer to front. Thank you!

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