Aaand she stopped replying.
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6y ago
I felt if I gave her reasons why, I was going to qualify myself, that's why I used that line.
Should I have started portraying in her mind what would have happened (50 shades of grey style)?
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I felt if I gave her reasons why, I was going to qualify myself, that's why I used that line.
Should I have started portraying in her mind what would have happened (50 shades of grey style)?
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19 Posts (+84), 522 Cmts (+198)
A few things man. First off, I'm a little confused about the logistics of it all. Are you guys not in the same city? If that is the case, it's a different ball game and we need to take it into account. Secondly, I'm typically not a fan of going that sexual that fast. It screens out too many girls. I prefer to ease into it a little bit more. And lastly, your last message was kind of weak. Much better one would have been "multiple screaming orgasms for starters"
4 Posts (+0), 12 Cmts (+3)
Not even different cities, but countries lol.
Yea, that line was lacking of spine. Of course now I have to double message her. Should I re-open with something completely unrelated?
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You could, but do you intend to be on the same city as her? That’s the first thing I’d figure out
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I'd take that and try to save it. If you get nothing for 24 hrs double-tap with something like
"come on you know this one, multiple screaming orgasms"
"a hint: fluffy pillows, multiple screaming orgasms"
Thing about qualifying is, at some point you have to establish your qualifications. Triumph once described dating for females as "you've got your veritable pick of the litter: you can choose from all kinds of guys who have no idea how to please you." That's where you start off in her mind... then your pics, bio, conversation style, subcommunication, and overt content establish that you do know how to please her. Or in this case they didn't get it over the line, and you got called on it.
There's no point dodging a qualification test by saying "well you tell me why I'm qualified". That's indistinguishable from "I have no idea how to please you". It's actually worse because you invited her to come up with reasons why she shouldn't be in your bed. And if you dodge the test you're still unqualified in her mind.
So like Indian PE says, I would eeeeeease into it, and establish qualifications properly so she never even dreams of asking why should I.