A very strange respond, or shit test ?
Hello,
This girl works in a very large convenience store which I visit once a week, so I spoke to her a few times (shopping).
Tuesday, she served me and she mentioned that she doesn't celebrate Xmas this year because she became single and there is no point celebrate Xmas alone.
I got the hint, so I asked her out for a drink next days, she enthusiastically said sure and we exchanged numbers. She mentioned that this week she is free Thu and Fri.
WhatsApp TEXT (translation):
TUESDAY
18:40 me: "Hi Iza, nice to meet you today :) are you always so friendly to the new guys?"
THURSDAY
12:10 me: "...?"
FRIDAY
18:00 her: "Hi, I'm friendly to everyone it doesn't matter. Sorry, I don't like exchanging meaningless messages, I rarely text back. Have a nice night"
Her WhatsApp was NOT active from our number exchange TUE till actually her response on FRI.
How respond to something like that?
Cheers.
4 Posts (+0), 35 Cmts (+21)
Just ask her out "Great, getting to know someone is way better in person then via text. Lets grab that drink we talked about, whats your schedule looking like"
4 Posts (+4), 223 Cmts (+101)
This right here. Kinda rude of her to not at least entertain op but i guess thats her prerogative. Youd think if she was at least somewhat interested she wouldve humored him a bit.
Perhaps this is a red flag and op dodged a bullet. I know i wouldnt want to date a girl who doesnt show me basic common courtesy and expects me to read her mind.
4 Posts (+0), 35 Cmts (+21)
Speaking from experince i matched with this one girl that lives less then a mile away, tryed to have a convo and she responded like 2 times then ghosted
Match with her again after a few months, same thing. Then i just text "wanna go out sometime?" and she responds "sure since ur so close:)"
And in person she told me she hates texting and rather just meets up. These type of girls are rare but they do exist, tho i agree with your last sentence yea
6 Posts (+6), 13 Cmts (+10)
Update:
Texted: "Great, getting to know someone is way better in person then via text. Lets grab that drink we talked about, whats your schedule looking like"
and she went silent . I recon she is not interested. Case close
2 Posts (+0), 9 Cmts (+16)
Oh well it happens. Think you read her wrong then? Since u said "she enthusiastically said sure" to your drink offer but then immediately ghosted
6 Posts (+6), 13 Cmts (+10)
I see it as at that moment she was enthusiastic, but later ( day after) her mood changed and she flaked.