Ima make this short and to the point.. There’s this girl I used to work with. We got along well. We’d talk and message each other daily, there was laughter, banter and some flirting. I wanna smash bad and I told her in person my intentions, obviously not like this lol and I told her I don’t kiss and tell but she stopped working and she ghosted me for a couple weeks.. eventually we talked again which was good. But then my dumbass shared some text messages from a couple girls where they’re basically praising me for my sex (Btw I did conceal these persons names/ numbers) cause I wanted her to see cause In my mind I thought that would arouse curiosity in her like, “hmm, this guys sounds like he’s good in bed, let me try him out” .. so fucking stupid of me to think that I know... and well ever since she saw those messages she hasn’t messaged me or reacted to my stories. I know I fucked up badly for posting that shit especially after telling her that I don’t kiss and tell but do y’all think I can still turn this around and have her trust me or nah?
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Yeah. That strategy can work in certain circumstances. It can also backfire. I certainly experienced it myself a few times. Anything is possible. Give it a shot. But I wouldn't put hope on it
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Even if she's into you and wanted to have sex with you, agreeing to hookup overtly would make her look like a slut. That's probably why she didn't respond. If I were you I would've invited her to my place (or a nearby bar) to split a bottle of wine and then escalate from there.