5 point mindset checklist for texting & approaching irl

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Credit to Julien, best personal growth coach out there imo

  1. She loves sex. LOVES fucking. More than I do. Look at her in the eye or imagine her in my mind, and remember this is true, no matter what.

  2. Offer value. Show genuine interest. Give personal anecdotes I find amusing. Bring the fun carefreeness, passion. Be at cause, create the connection.

  3. Be real, let my authenticity shine through. Embrace my weirdness while calibrating relatability. Relaxed, no filter, this is me. Here's what turns me on, interests me.

  4. Man to woman. Yeah I reached out/approached you. Yeah I'm flirting with you. Yeah I have sexual desire & I fuckin own that shit. What you gonna do about it ;)

  5. Give love. Let her be who she is. Let go & give her the opportunity to give back if she wants. If not, best wishes. And if she flakes, is nasty, disrespects me - block, delete, back turn, bye. No more attention. My boundaries, act of self love.

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avilench . Avatar

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I like it

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G

39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)

Love it. Could you explain what "be at cause" means?

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L

44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)

Take initiative whenever you desire, be a leader

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A

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Appreciate your effort for helping us man. I watched like 2-3 videos of him and I already feel like a changed man. His personality is also something I admire, he's actually a really funny guy. His social anxiety stuff is also really helpfull. Learned some really good stuff and I can't wait to try it out :)

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