“Bro, texting and online game is bullshit”

Says the handsome guy who I met through mutual friends (NO HOMO). One night, I’m out in Atlanta and we meet a college frat boy. High SMV. Very popular in social circles here. I see every girl acknowledging him while walking past. We actually do a set together and he seems like he’s got decent game but absolutely doesn’t believe in tinder and the amount of abundance it could generate for him

Today, yours truly Indian PE is going to bust this and some similar textgame myths.

The frat boy, Chad Chadinson was introduced to me by his friend who’s from the pwfmm group (he shall not be named). He bought me a beer after we got to talking about Online Dating. Guy shows me frustration about how he’s never gotten a lay from Tinder. I ask him to bust out his tinder to me.

Surprise! Surprise!

Has got 1800 matches (Wasn’t even sure if there were 1800 girls in this city 🤔). Mind you. Extremely hot ones who are athletic and play volleyball and other sports even in their sleep. You can imagine the thighs and ass on these girls. I NEG him about not being able to meet up any of them. I go through all his interactions. Literally every single opener is either a “Hi”, “How are you”, “Hey sexy”

Guy seemed to have only a finite knowledge of word combinations in English literature. I explain to him what I’m about to describe to the best of my abilities

Myth 1: Textgame is only for making plans and should be kept to a minimum

Before you go around believing this, ask yourself “Am I Leonardo Di Caprio?”, “Am I david guetta?” or “Am I a famous coke dealer who’s got bitches coming straight over?”

If all those above questions were answered NO to by your beautiful mind, then stop thinking that you should keep text game to a minimum. If your perceived value is high on your profile, then yes! you can keep it to a minimum. But more often than not, even with the highest SMV, you still can’t get dates if you don’t put in just a smidge of effort to “woo” the girl

You need a structure. You need to not just focus on logistics and go for the meet asap!! All the girl is going to expect is a 2-pump chump when she meets you. Build some patience. Try different things. Observe! Find something unique about her profile and comment on it. You won’t develop wit over night but the old notion says

“Seduce her mind before you seduce her”

Myth 2: You cannot build Attraction or Comfort over text

We all know RSD is way too focused on comfort. I think it’s straight up BS. I’d rather, the girl not feel comfortable but be nervous around me. I want her to not be sure what she’s feeling when she’s talking to me. I want her to feel all the range of emotions her body and mind can feel. That’s not going to happen with information exchange like in a job interview

I only ask each and everyone of you to focus on building value and holding your frame. The girl usually gives hints if she’s lacking a bit of comfort.

For example,

You: “What do you do for fun, Elektra?”
She: “I love to go singing, grab drinks with my friends, Walk with my dog and travel. What about you?”

You: “Hiking, poker, eat pussy, eat good food, travel, play ping pong”
She: “Nice :). Where’s the last place you’ve been?”

Notice how she brushed past the “eat pussy” bait to sexualize? That’s because she’s lacking comfort and wants a little bit of genuineness. Don’t go pervy Pratik mode and say “Colombia. But I’m planning a visit between your legs next”

BAD!

You should take the hint and keep it logical here. Talk about your favorite place or even go a little flirtatious and say that’s where you’ll take her for the honeymoon

I’ll try to keep the “Attraction” part short. Just convey you have a cool life. You party, work out, cook for yourself, love animals, friends and family and have a passion. Find ways to insinuate that you love your life and you’d be keen about inviting her into yours

Myth 3: Never ever sexualize over text!

Guys who preach this are obviously Grade A retards. They never had enough experience dealing with different types of girls. RSD Max is big on this and he thinks that girls just bait sexting as a form of validation/attention seeking. In some cases, that may be true but more often then not, you just didn’t sexualize smoothly.

Instead of pointing fingers, I’ll tell you why sexualizing is extremely important.

You’re being direct yet calibrated and not just saying “Let’s fuck”. You’re letting her your intentions but in a way where she doesn’t just feel like a slut but enjoys the emotions you’re giving her along with the sexualizing
When she meets you, she has a sense of what you might do and knows you won’t creepily escalate on her. She is glad you understand that you need to build some form of a connection to have good sex
You screen out girls who are extremely prude and would only open their legs after 10 dates (Girls you’d want to avoid anyway since they’re being manipulative about “giving away” sex)

Guys who fail at sexualizing are usually the ones who didn’t do it smartly and are just too out of the place and gamey and don’t know when to do it. I’m going to use my B+ skill in high school mathematics to explain Value and Sexual Dynamic

The greater Value you have, the easier/earlier and cruder-ly (not sure if it’s a word) you can sexualize. The lesser initial value, the more you need to Vibe and DHV till you get to a point where she’d be more open to sexualizing.

These are all the main Textgame myths I can think of. Feel free to comment below if you are not sure about something you heard and need it to be Roasted by your favorite Indian ;)

• Until next time, Curry man (Indian PE)