Backstory: we matched on okcupid in january but couldn't meat due to scheduling/logistical issues, but we followed each other on IG, chatted here and there. This convo started last week by her replying to my story. Note; screenshot no6 is just to confirm the time.
IMPORTANT: last 2 sh are post date, which went very well minus the last 15ish min where i did poorly on physical esc towards the kiss - it felt like i pushed and chased for the kiss. The girl was only comfortable w holding hand since she isn't rlly exp with dates and is more on the conservative side (tots fine by me, she is v cool). we did kiss at the end before the split up, but it wasn't a make out sesh. she gave me the cheek at first and kissed me twice after I de-escalated a bit, but still felt a bit chased too much. Myb im wrong but i think her "enthusiasm" went down a bit post date, at least judging from the last 2 sh (however she was the one who suggested to meet up again so there's that).
What is the best road for setting up the 2nd date over text, what to DO and what NOT to do? avilench .






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Lol dude. you are overthinking this. Just get her out for another date. Same way you did for the first one. Then escalate some more. Hopefully you get a bit further this time lol