Just for context Iām a 20 year old virgin. My life has been pretty hectic and unstable. I was raised in Mexico and had a pretty crappy childhood full of trauma. In 2012 I came back to the US and it was very difficult adapting to a whole new culture. I didnāt know any English, was very short, and everyone made fun of me. This led to my self steem and confidence drop to the floor. Throughout middle school and high school I always had a negative imagine of myself. During my senior year of high school (knew nothing about game, red pill, blue pill, etc) I started talking to a very cute girl. I had this āgentlemanā or ānice guyā mindset and made the whole interaction with this girl super platonic. I would text her 24/7, needy af I know but back then I felt like I was the best choice for her. Pretty much I did the opposite of what PWF teaches. I went on 2 dates with her and did not make a move at all. No kiss no hug no nothing. When I tried setting up a third date with her she ghosted me and I didnāt understand why. After this went down I tried talking to more girls with 0 luck. Then I started watching YouTube. I followed people like StephIsCold, AMS, TMF, BasedZeus, MJ Getright, and started learning about this whole āgameā thing. There was one big problem. No of them game practical advice. Most of them only talk about theory & concepts and tel you to just focus on your purpose and all the girls will chase you. Well I did focus on my purpose and guess what? No girls here lmao. But then I started watching PWF and decided to make a tinder account. Had a few matches here and there but none led to a date. Then I tweaked my profile, took better pics, and started playing with bumble and hinge and all the sudden started getting more matches. Right now I wanna say that Iāve had about 200 overall matches and like 10 of those matches couldāve actually been potential closes (all dtf) but hereās the problem. Iām insecure about my PP size. Iām a solid 3ā flaccid and a little over 5ā erect but it doesnāt have that much girth. Right now thanks to PWF I feel extremely confident and carry myself in a confident manner. Iāve been hitting the gym and started focusing on raising my SMV. My text game is not expert level by any means but itās enough that I can close a girl but I just canāt because I feel like when it gets time to get it on Iām not gonna perform good or simply the girl isnāt gonna like it and possibly make fun of me. This post may be silly to some people but I really need help. Thank you all in advance.
40 Posts (+22), 151 Cmts (+51)
All those youtubers and any other give nothing but theory and concepts, of you want practical game and mind sets listen to real talk with rosebudd.
Been watching these fools for years and havenāt come across anything as profound and useful as this guy.
But if you donāt like it that means youāre not ready to understand it.
You have 3 more then a lot of others.
Who gives a fuck about your size, own that shieettty.
Sheās lucky that you blessed her and gave her the full 5, you could of chose to be a mother fucker and just give her 3.
5 Posts (+2), 372 Cmts (+206)
tactical stuff:
make women come with your mouth/hands/voice before you fuck them, and if you're hard while they're coming fuck them then. You won't get any size related complaints during or after that. Orgasms are king, confidence is key.
if you're jerking it to porn stop now. The next person to touch your dick should be a woman. The next naked woman you see should be in bed with you. The next dick you see should be... well I don't care about that as long as it's not some giant pornstar cock giving you wrong ideas about typical penis size. Anyway if you aren't beating your meat to porn you can relax about your performance, you're 20, you perform fine every 15 minutes
you maybe never realized, vaginas hold tampons in place. As in, the dick-shaped cotton things with 0.5" diameter and 2" length. If your cock is bigger than a tampon, her vagina will grip it fine. In fact if you're longer than 3" you'll be banging up against the cervix for a bit until her vag can stretch out to take your length.
final tactic: have the experience and then decide. Fuck 10 women, make them come for you, and if any of them didn't like it or made fun of you come back here and we'll deal with it then
10 Posts (+7), 8 Cmts (+5)
Aye man thank you. I appreciate your help. I will come back to this post when I have banged my first chick and tell you how it went. Thanks my brother