So I live with my parents so logistically, my go-to would be her place. She's already under the impression we're going to a coffee shop but I'm going for the lay. I plan to say something like "I just realized the coffee place I was planning on taking u to would've already been closed and I live too far from my campus. Assuming u live by yourself or with a roommate, your place would be most convenient." Would it be better in these kinda of scenarios to agree to a place closer to the arranged date time so she has less time to reconsider?