This is a girl I closed last Monday. I posted the LR in the Forums. As I was dropping her off she brought up us seeing each other again & we made plans but mentioned that their would be a small chance that she’d be out of town for work, which ended up happening. You’ll see post sex she had a really good time & was excited to meet again. But then, looks like she just stopped caring. Date went well in my opinion. She stood over til 3am & was a lot of fun. Over text, I was mainly trying to just figure out when she would be back in town. & Then she ends up double texting me once she is, but then doesn’t help move it forward when it comes to us meeting. My first voice note was offering us to meet tmrw night. & Then my final voice note was “You don’t sound confident. Look if you’re not into this, just let me know. I was looking forward to us seeing each other again, but I can stop trying” Tbh this shit is just exhausting man. I’m just tired of getting into complex text games post first date to meet again. Just serial one night stands & no rotation of girls at all. Me: All good, enjoy your trip. When do you get back Her: Silence Me: Question marks my text Her: Hey Her: Nope I’m in Atlanta rn Her: Hits me up once she's back in town Me: We should celebrate Her: Lol ohhh shall we? Me: Indeed we shall. When are you free Her: Silence Me: Re-engage Her: I’ve been busy, I’m leaving to SF this Sat, I’m not sure, I’ll let you know All of it just reads as disinterest to me. That’s two instances of trying to move things forward that she gave me silence to & then when I re-engaged yesterday third time another instance of silence with no effort to make us meeting again. Unless it’s just that these girls find me attractive enough to bang, but not enough to want to do it again deep fake or not, & they’re just being polite. Or of course emotional investment or sex game isn’t mind blowing. In this case, I’m curious what you think man.

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normally it is but you are having trouble getting girls to go on the second date. So either you have to fix some leak in the in person game or build more comfort in the text. It just feels like all you are doing is saying "when are you coming through again?" in like 4 different ways.

maybe bring up the date and play into the fun of it.

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