Gotcha. The roleplay thing is cool, but if you don't show intent to actually meet up with her in person, it will die out very quick.
I'd reply with "You read my mind. Let's plan out the details over a bottle of wine/ over dinner sometime/ (insert date activity)."
When she complies with the soft close, tell her to shoot you her number. You'll have to use the transition from Hinge to text as a chance to actually build comfort, sexual tension, etc. to make sure she doesn't flake.
Thanks man, got the number. How do you handle situations like this? I want to try and keep the vibe going before setting a date to meet up and don’t want it to just go into interview mode
Just tell her a few cool, interesting things about yourself and ask her the same back. You need to bring the interaction back down to a normal level for a bit cos so far it's been all playful. It's similar to being too gamey, she's not gonna view you as a real person to meet if you're just non stop playing around. Then bring back to meeting and logistics
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Gotcha. The roleplay thing is cool, but if you don't show intent to actually meet up with her in person, it will die out very quick.
I'd reply with "You read my mind. Let's plan out the details over a bottle of wine/ over dinner sometime/ (insert date activity)."
When she complies with the soft close, tell her to shoot you her number. You'll have to use the transition from Hinge to text as a chance to actually build comfort, sexual tension, etc. to make sure she doesn't flake.
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Thanks man, got the number. How do you handle situations like this? I want to try and keep the vibe going before setting a date to meet up and don’t want it to just go into interview mode
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Just tell her a few cool, interesting things about yourself and ask her the same back. You need to bring the interaction back down to a normal level for a bit cos so far it's been all playful. It's similar to being too gamey, she's not gonna view you as a real person to meet if you're just non stop playing around. Then bring back to meeting and logistics