follow-up from: https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/smashed-ig-model-thru-social-circle-night-game-thoughts-on-getting-2nd context: you were right -- she just wanted to hook up. she came over, we had some wine, flirted, but she wanted to get really drunk so we finished the bottle then had a few vodka shots. i was completely plastered when we were hooking up, so my dick could barely get hard and it slipped out after she rode me for like a minute and she couldn't get it hard again. context is that the first time i could barely get hard too but i was able to smash her for like an hour. i fingered her / ate her out a few times and we hung out for another couple hours (went out for a walk to the ocean near me, chilled in my bed) before we slept. when we got into bed she asked me "do you cum?" and i answered about how i was extremely drunk and tired and on finasteride. then we talked a bit more and then slept. when i tried making plans that night i asked "do you wanna hang out again?" she said yes, then i asked "when are you free" and she said "text me i dont know my schedule yet" but she is on a gap year so not that busy but her mom is visiting so maybe not lying. in the morning she was colder than any other time she was drunk/sober and gave the same "text me" answer when i tried making plans. but she stayed while i made her breakfast instead of immediately bouncing, and could have also just wanted to leave early since she knew i was working that day. she also has lots of red flags though like she sued her ex-BF for $2M and won, and when i asked why she always needs to be drunk when we hook up she wouldn't tell me, so maybe it's for the best if it doesn't work out. the most brutal part is when i was smashing another fuckbuddy who's not as hot or cool on sunday, my dick was working fantastically and i came faster than i normally do because i was sober and not tired. it's just because she wanted to come over late af and get really drunk and i didn't wanna make her uncomfortable / be in a situation where she's really drunk and im fucking her basically sober. anyways, the ASK is: since it's a friend of friend and we had some prior rapport, i ideally don't want to triple/quadruple text this girl -- she knows im interested in hanging out with her again. so, this next text matters a bit more. normally i'd say "are you always this talkative ;)" or "if you're too nervous, id understand" but im thinking about saying something about the sex/my dick like "it will be much more fun if im sober and you slide a bit earlier", or send a picture i took of her while we were walking outside at night (it's by a famous monument in my city). what should i do from here?