At End of Hinge conversation, she had taken 3 days to get back to me confirming that she wanted to meet Tuesday night. She was very much of the mindset of screw a lot of texting, let's meet irl. She was kind of thick and smelled like hippie patchouli, but I felt genuine attraction and she definitely did...when I kissed her at multiple venues, I always broke it off first and she was still leaning in for more. Lots of touching. Referring to "us" and "we should totally ( this and that) together". Closed down 2nd venue at 2am. In her car, wild makeouts and feeling each other up. It's so hot that I hadn't even been thinking sex tonight, but gently suggested it "um ..we could go back to your place if you want" and she smiled and said 'i don't think we should tonight ' and I agreed "yeah it's a first date, we should save something for later". Makeout continued for a minute then I broke it off with her still leaning in and I said goodnight...almost fell asleep in the car lol and texted her the šŸ”„ thing when I got home at almost 3am. It just seemed so certain she was down to hangout again that I did the last text yesterday at 2pm. I'm surprised she hasn't responded yet and am seeking advice on what to do now.

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Absolutely, great points. Thanks dude

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No worries, it will also demonstrate that you are an in-demand guy if/when she does engage and you can no longer meet then "Sorry girl, Sunday is no good now. Daddy is a busy man ;). I am free wednesday or friday nights." for example

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I asked another experienced guy for feedback and he advised just reengaging today from the frame of she's a busy Mom and no biggie about the lack of response, based on how long it took her on hinge to confirm the 1st date. So I split the baby so to speak, around noon I sent this text

"Happy Saturday Lauren! Don't be shy now ;) hope you're enjoying extended time off"

And so far nothing.

Still matched in Hinge. I'm thinking she either got fuckboy vibes even though I gave her a large sample size of my real personality and life experience...or, she got butthurt because I didn't text her at all Wednesday after the date. And possibly blocked me? But still there on hinge.

So I'm wondering if the next move if I hear nothing would be wait until Tuesday and send a hinge message

"I felt a real connection with you. I'd love to see you again"

And then, at least I know she would see that, and if she's really uninterested she could just unmatch then and message delivered lol

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