I like this text! I'm not sure I agree that she is already on board though, she is testing his frame quite a bit. @Josh j Are you planning a dinner date for the first date? I strongly recommend against this. Drinks make escalation much easier logistically, and help you maintain the frame that you aren't over-commiting until you decide if you are into her. When we offer dinner and pay, to me, it operates under the frame of "I am trying to win you over". Your text game looks good here, though
I agree with you. She's not fully on board yet with his plans but she does like him thats clear as day to me. I think both can be true and at the very least that should make Josh j more confident. I agree on what you said about the date as well. I would definitely shoot for wine.
yea i dont even really want to go out and eat either for a first date tbh. The date aint till tuesday so i got a bit of time, how can reframe this into sum else like drinks or anything else?
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I like this text! I'm not sure I agree that she is already on board though, she is testing his frame quite a bit. @Josh j Are you planning a dinner date for the first date? I strongly recommend against this. Drinks make escalation much easier logistically, and help you maintain the frame that you aren't over-commiting until you decide if you are into her. When we offer dinner and pay, to me, it operates under the frame of "I am trying to win you over". Your text game looks good here, though
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I agree with you. She's not fully on board yet with his plans but she does like him thats clear as day to me. I think both can be true and at the very least that should make Josh j more confident. I agree on what you said about the date as well. I would definitely shoot for wine.
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Yeah, I agree, the vibe is good. I like chicks like this actually, a bit of fight in 'em. Just as long as that subsides after sex
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yea i dont even really want to go out and eat either for a first date tbh. The date aint till tuesday so i got a bit of time, how can reframe this into sum else like drinks or anything else?
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"dinner is a 4th date activity. Let's meet for drinks. Besides, food can make me sleepy"