I day gamed this girl saying hey you look really cute. What's your name. We shake hands and I hold her hand for a few seconds. She is holding a camera in her hands. She has a big smile on face and is really receptive from the get go. I throw in a few spikes saying ‘what’s a girl all glammed up like you doing in the middle of nowhere. She tells me she is a food Instagram photographer and just finished up doing that in the city, caught the tram back and ended up in the inner suburbs. She asks what I am doing and I say ‘I was just going for a walk and I saw you and had to come Hi to a lovely lady like you’. She laughs saying it is so random. I disqualify and spike saying oh I hope you aren’t a IG model. Oh you are trouble. Sorry I can’t talk to you anymore. She laughs saying ‘Nooo Im not.’ She tells me she is waiting for her sister to pick her up and we walk up the street for a bit. Then her sister arrives soon after and I go for the number. She tells me she has a boyfriend and gives me her Instagram instead. She then leaves. Then I text her later that night as seen in the screenshots. What should I say now to be able to escalate it further? Thanks!

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Here's the truth man. This one is 99.99.99% likely to go absolutely nowhere. The commination of her telling you she has a bf and then giving you her IG not her number is a clear sign of disinterest. One of those by themselves can be overcome, but together this is a guarantee that this girl is going to be a waste of time. Some guys in the pu community have the fantasy that any girl can be gotten with decent "game" , but that is pure fantasy. Some girls are in commented relationships, some don't find you attractive. And there are a number of other factors. You want to focus your energy on girls who are interested or somewhat interested. hope this helps man.

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But she was very receptive. She was smiling and laughing when I spiked her and disqualified her. Sorry just trying to understand.
Also can you give some advice on what if only one of those things were present as I have other leads that fit this criteria i.e Has a bf but gave me her number vs doesn't have a bf but gave me just the IG.
Thanks Man.

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Just give it a shot with any girl who you exchange numbers/ig with. You really don’t know until you try

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Sometimes a girl may seem receptive but be really not interested. And vice versa a girl who you think have you s bs number turns out to be super Dtf.

It’s hard for me to point out specific things since I wasn’t there and never saw infield

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