Met this tattooed girl a week and a half ago and got her number. Last Wednesday she came over to a bar near my place and I took her home after. We screwed half the night and she left in the morning. We’re kinda part of the same scene so we already had some connection. Before leaving she mentioned that we should do this again sometime. We exchanged texts Thursday and Friday as she told me about her upcoming trip. Last weekend she went away on a trip to the south and returned Monday. This is my reinitiation text from yesterday and she’s been silent since. I’m having regrets of making it seem too much like a booty call after what seems like a cool off. Should I just wait and reinitiate with a meme in a week? What do you think?

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I’m curious why you think it was a strange text.
It’s perfectly in the context of her tattoos and situational humor.

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I wasn’t commenting on the relevance but rather how the message sounded weird especially “moisturizing maintenance.” It was just my guess since no reply came after.

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Thanks, I’ll make a note to keep it simple next time.
I tend to get overly wordy and creative at times, the overcompensating immigrant that I am.

One thing I’m not used to is pure hookup situations.
This girl is probably that at this point. She lost her partner of many years (died in a crash) and is on the rebound.

However I don’t wanna frame myself as purely a fuck boy. Do I just ask her to come over next time or have a secondary reason like “watching a movie”?

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