Been having a rock solid convo with this fine ass South American girl from Hinge and we’ve tentatively set up a date for this coming Friday. But I’ve asked for her phone number twice and for some reason she hasn’t given it and has instead responded around it. How do I directly call it out in a chill way, I’ve been stuck on this for a couple days now so any quick response is appreciated. Thanks UPDATE: Lol I forgot to mention that I actually did reply not long after initially making this post, saying “Lol not a fan of iMessage I’m sensing”. There’s been no reply since and that was Monday morning. She’s updated her profile pic on the app since then too
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Lol I forgot to mention that I actually did reply not long after initially making this post, saying “Lol not a fan of iMessage I’m sensing”. There’s been no reply since and that was Monday morning. She’s updated her profile pic since then too
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way too eager man. no point in making a post if you're gonna reply to the chick before actually getting advice. looks like a lost cause...
you focused way too much on the number rather than seeing her high investment and interest for what it is. if she ignored your number request twice, but continued the convo, you have to read the room at that point and continue the convo towards the meet up. Then you ended the good banter to solely focus on the number was the kill shot
She was giving you her availability, so a couple more messages could've landed you the date
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Yeah I ended up unmatching cuz it was tanked. I was just impatient cuz I know it could take a while for people to comment here. Funny enough, in hindsight now I’m thinking she was more than cute enough to where I should’ve just continued on without the number. And now I’m pissed with myself cuz a whole weekend home alone has now gone to waste in terms of dates 😒 smfh