Alright, so I have been trying to make plans with this girl I matched with on bumble for about a week now and she claims she’s quite busy. Last week I said I was free on friday and Saturday, but those days didn’t work for her because she had 2 birthdays. After a little back and forth I suggested 2 other days. This was on Thursday. She doesn’t reply to this message but then Friday night she messages me: “I’m available now.” However, I was already asleep. So now my question for you guys is: what would you guys say?
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Just say what’s your schedule looking like. That’s my go to.
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That is my go to aswell, however I’m actually quite busy too so that’s why I took this approach. But I’m actually more interested if we can take this as an opportunity to set a solid frame. Because to me that message is her saying. “Yo I want to have sex now.”