As you can see I banged her and she agreed the day after to meet again, that was over two weeks ago and as I suggested a weekend, she already had plans. As I tried to make new plans, she didn't reply my last message for 5 days now. I get the feeling that I loose her. How can I make plans now to get her into my rotation?
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2y ago
2 Posts (+0), 101 Cmts (+47)
Re-engage with her... "happy wednesday" is enough. After that, get to scheduling.
Your last message doesn't really drive the conversation, and you come across as being a bit too coy. After you're "you'll have to wait" it sounds like you're setting it up to say you're unavailable for a while. When you don't come back with a valid reason or a time frame, it doesn't leave her much to go with. You've already hooked up and she's into it - there's no need to drop much game. Keep it simple with planning and casual flirting. You've already won.
have fun bro
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She followed up with that, how can I handle that?
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2 Posts (+0), 101 Cmts (+47)
You're taking the L here, for now. "Breaking my heart, but I understand. I'm here if that changes"
The last passage wasn't great man. Too many texts, and way too passive aggressive. She's right. Just put a question mark on that text next time. If you have to use Alex's line, use it correctly! "and the award for best texter goes to..." - that's playful, yours comes across as somewhat mean. It's more of a last resort text than something to get the ball rolling again.
the good news is she had a good time with you. clean up your texting a little and you're golden. easy missteps to correct