In Jan 2026 she responded to an old story response I had sent in July 2025, then I tried continuing the convo on IG. Decided to just text her even though the last texts were wack, since she has 200k followers and figured she just missed it.  Thinking of following up on Thursday night with "sounds good? if not when are you free".  She takes a while to respond though, so I'm not sure if she's just waiting or something. I also know that she's been hanging out with some other dude since my friend saw them making out last weekend, if that makes a difference. Pretty sure that just means I should have texted her sooner in Jan like I was thinking. Lmk if my plan sounds good or what you'd send instead.
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Is it worth triple texting the day of / before the date? and if so what? should i just say "Or we could just do Topgolf" I think she's seeing another guy and just more focused on that tbh, since she posted an IG story with a guy that she went golfing with 1:1 yesterday (saturday).
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No, I think it will come off needy at this point. I would just let this sit for 4-5 days, and if you don't hear from her, then you can try a final takeaway like "I genuinely didn't take you for the flaky type."
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Should I just say "i understand. are you actually interested in meeting up"
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