What is best way to work on canned materials. I feel like tripping from good example to another. Any tip what should I think of before bantering. I feel like nothing comes up naturally and my conversations get into too serious because in some cases, I just don't know what to say that will banter. And yeah that's the part so don't tell me that it's not it. For now, that's what I'm asking. So how to be a better banter?
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Text or irl? Irl just find lines that work for you and use them. Push your comfort zone. Also it’s all about free association. Just talk. Lines are for situations where you need to know what to say. I’ll try to compile a list of lines at some point.
Also, self amuse. Say stuff you think is funny and find it hilarious. That doesn’t mean laugh like crazy at your own jokes. Just be confident that you’re funny. Just believe that you think you’re funny. It’s a strong frame and she’ll buy into if you hold it.
No matter what you do when you’re learning you’ll get tested. Be non reactive. One line I use if she says she doesn’t like my outfit. I’ll look at her offenses and say “my mom got me this outfit.” That’s what lines are for. Common situations. But lines are totally unnecessary.
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Thank you for the long message, but I can't understand how is it related. I am asking how to feel from inside the authenticity to banter with girls and how to think of canned materials without using other person's line. I want to use my lines but I want some way or something to think about before being rude. yes, rude. sometimes in-game we're a bit rude, with humor ofc, but rude. obviously not rude, in terms of offending the girl, but being slightly rude.
What do you think about before bantering with the girl? Do you generate lines on your own?
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I never worry about offending girls. I do offend some. But I find offending girls is as likely to turn them on as it is to push them away. You just have to have a strong frame. A good line is just “oh my god I hate you” while smiling. You can also combine verbal pushes with physical pulls. So you can say “I hate you” but give her a hug. Or vice versa say “I love you” and push her away. My sets are like one big push pull.
Just say stuff. When it hits remember it and say it again next time your in set. Eventually you’ll rack up lines. But yeah natural game in my opinion works the best. Just free associate. Say whatever comes to your mind. Don’t worry about switching topics.