Hey guys. Here's a screenshot of a conversation from start to point I'm in currently. The girl is 37 from Poland. Do you understand why I failed to reengage her when I continued the conversation on the following day (that's the last next)? Whats your preferred message when I make my next attempt? Best regards
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Not sure why you sent "Do I sense hesitation"
I would have answered "Depends" with "On?"
Wait another day and send "mic check 1 2 3"
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Finally a reply from you Jake! Thanks. Yeah that 'On' reply will be good to use at some point.
Reason I said 'Do I sense hesitation' was because her text #8 and #10 made me think I was pushing it too quickly. I was interpreting it as a signal that the sexualization was progressing faster than she was familiar with. I thought that by asking about hesitation, I would hold the frame but use whatever response to determine whether she was good.
How are you reading her texts #8 and #10?