Didn't post screenshots of banter and get to know you comments between closing and confirming. How often do you guys have things like this happen? Also, I still feel like, "Picked out a cute outfit for tomorrow?" is the best thing for confirming a date the day before, but does anyone disagree? And how about the classic, "If you're too nervous, I'd totally understand!" Is "It's okay if you don't wanna do this" a better option for scenarios where you're ignored confirming the date?
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Really? I tried to make the meet happen while justifying my actions for the first 7 then decided she was a lost cause. Maybe I could've on the 10th, but I was done with her bullshit.
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Her: So are we still on for tonight?
You: You're actually one of the most toxic girls I've ever met
Her: I am still more than glad to meet you
You: You are making up random bullshit
You can only choose 1 of: make meet happen / justify actions. You chose "justify actions"
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Make meet happen with this girl? Dude you good?
There are better options. Even if it did happen the whole frame was thrown off without a good way to bring it back (noting how she really is). She’s probably like that because of all the other thirsty guys playing it safe (that’s why is always good to not play it safe boys, especially from start).
He isn’t justifying actions, he’s calling her on her bullshit.
Edit: reading it again. Yes he does justify his actions for a bit and that’s bad. But towards the end it turns into calling her out.