I matched this girl weeks ago on the app was all ok, but she told me she’s a shit texter on the app, proceeded and got her number but she didn’t reply to my opening message. I then reverted back to the app and called her out for ghosting after a couple weeks and as you can see she apologised and messaged back on my phone, but then proceeded to not reply again. Then the last message I got from her weeks ago after my final takeaway was a upset emoji... Any advice on what the next step is? I’ve resorted to just leave this one for now since she’s inconsistent but maybe it’s worth salvaging in a week or so?
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Thanks Alex. I’ll try that one in a week or so, since I ain’t losing anything at this point, if she ends up giving more investment then cool.
I’m curious though what takeaways would have been better in this case? I know the ones I used are the last resort ones, but I thought in the moment since I’d get no reply for a few weeks it was suitable.
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when she said im so sorry love, i wouldve just said "It's cool. Are you still interested in meeting up tho"
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Yeah always the most simple response is the best, yet sometimes we overthinking some crazy wild response.
I sent the takeaway you recommended “I just hope your better in person” yesterday no response yet. This one’s gonna be a slow burner probably but are there any videos on how to progress from
Here on out because I don’t think she’s replying for a few days, I have many other leads but this one’s worth a bit of extra patience here and there.