Invited a girl over Saturday for wine and I was unsuccessful in escalating to a kiss. Is there anything you can do to successfully escalate with these girls who don't want to be viewed as easy and don't welcome your advances. This girl seems like she wants a relationship instead of something casual and she views me as a player.

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Hmm. You're right she probably wouldn't have come straight over if she wasn't a little bit DTF. But she wouldn't even go in for a kiss when I tried. Any tips to make her horny if I'm not able to kiss her?

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With those types of girls I tend to physically escalate very slowly without going explicitly sexual until I get vibe she is pretty much begging me to kiss her. So like if we’re sitting on a couch as we’re talking I’ll gradually sit closer, then casually place my arm around her upper shoulder/back area, play with her hair, then like slowly transition to her lower back area and play with her hair more. I also noticed that talking slower than the girl during convo and being very calm has helped me escalate as well

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Check out my video "How to physically escalate, build sexual tension, & turn a girl on" It covers this & provides an example.

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I've seen them a few times. They're helpful but what if you're doing these things and the girl still isn't down to kiss? Would you recommend next time I have this girl over I skip trying to kiss on my couch and get her in my bed to cuddle watching a movie and go from there?

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Check out these two videos below. I think you'll find them helpful

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bv6g_hLMecc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8M3Zry4jUNQ

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