Invited a girl over Saturday for wine and I was unsuccessful in escalating to a kiss. Is there anything you can do to successfully escalate with these girls who don't want to be viewed as easy and don't welcome your advances. This girl seems like she wants a relationship instead of something casual and she views me as a player.
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Well, generally speaking "relationship girls" won't come straight to your place for a bottle of wine. Their are of course exceptions, but chances are this chick wanted to fuck at least on some level. In terms of her not wanting to be viewed as easy, that's a pretty basic concern that can be addressed. I would say something like "I don't think a person's character is determined by their lay count. What does that have to do with who you are as a person?" & Then basically just reframe casual sex as a good thing. In addition to that, I'd try to get her extremely horny so that her logical mind shuts off. Hope that helps man
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Hmm. You're right she probably wouldn't have come straight over if she wasn't a little bit DTF. But she wouldn't even go in for a kiss when I tried. Any tips to make her horny if I'm not able to kiss her?
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With those types of girls I tend to physically escalate very slowly without going explicitly sexual until I get vibe she is pretty much begging me to kiss her. So like if we’re sitting on a couch as we’re talking I’ll gradually sit closer, then casually place my arm around her upper shoulder/back area, play with her hair, then like slowly transition to her lower back area and play with her hair more. I also noticed that talking slower than the girl during convo and being very calm has helped me escalate as well
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Check out my video "How to physically escalate, build sexual tension, & turn a girl on" It covers this & provides an example.
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Check out these two videos below. I think you'll find them helpful
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bv6g_hLMecc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8M3Zry4jUNQ