Back story: I never use OLD. I’m pretty attractive in person, so usually just roll with nightgame which gets me plenty of results. First time on tinder, matched this girl, she’s 18 I’m 20. Moved the convo to text. I generally have a no nonsense approach, so I try to get straight to the point and ask her out. She gives some resistance and a “maybe”. Since this conversation, she has actually messaged me to reignite the conversation, but I don’t know where to lead it - do I just persist and ask her out again, or try to talk to her more and THEN ask her out AGAIN....
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I don't think she's given an objection, a logistical obstacle sure so your response is fine as you're trying to solve it. If you don't want to look butthurt by leaving girls on read, can just like her message- acknowledges it with lowest investment possible. Still a slight validation strip
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Yeah you’re right, I appreciate your advice. Logistical obstacle is a better description. But would that mean it’s still worth keeping my hand in it, considering she’s reached out again?
Albeit talking about some random shit idc about (my work colleague’s/her best friend’s breakup)... like do I bother engaging with her to keep her on good terms, or take as she just doesn’t wanna see me.
I don’t want to be text buddies, but I might still have to engage with her to keep us current?
Images below, what do you think. @Samay R @Bob Rao
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She's 100% into you bro, else she wouldn't re-engage like that, random shit or not. She wants to talk to you. What you've been doing is good, keeping your responses short and low investment, she'll definitely feel the drop in attention from you and it'll provoke her to chase more. Just text her every now and then and try to make plans again in a while, I'm sure she'll bite.