Dude, reading this is a bit cringey from the start. I’m not a fan of that first line, seems like soft closing from a low investment place. Nevertheless she responded positively to your first msg. The second sentence was a bit too try hard, meaning you were just trying too hard to use that line. Again, she responded okay. Then you blew it up with the bratty line. Reality is she’s a Grandma 👵 going to bed so early.. you could’ve teased her a bit and spiked her emotions “Cutest 👵 on here” and stayed in a positive frame rather than a combative frame. You could try to recover with something like “Let’s start over.. Hi, I’m Shawn. I like pizza and kick ass at Mario kart. Pleasure to make your acquaintance Sarah.”

Yes, it’s a little cheesy but that’s the point. You’ve got to walk back her upset and make her rethink your personality for a second. Then you can make progress forward