I just moved to a city and tinder/bumble is crazy. I have a few dates lined up next week. Way better than the small town I came from. But I see a lot of hot girls walking down the street that are way hotter than my matches. Is it worth it to talk to them? What would your approach be? Is it better to be direct and just say, "Hey you're almost ask cute as me. We should swap numbers and get to know each other." Or do you have a better line to try out?
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Personally i wouldn't use that FnF line. But thats just my personal choice. What I say is something along the lines of "excuse me, hi, sorry to interrupt you but i saw you and just had to come and introduce myself. My name is ____." - "I saw you walking by and i had to come meet you, how about you take my number down and we can get to know each other in a more intimate way". Not really abt "lines" but make sure you rehearse if you never did it before. Do it in the mirror and see your facial expression, voice tone, posture, and eye contact, so when you see a woman you like you GO and dont need to think abt what to say. Remember your job is to ACT, the outcome is not in your control.
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Awesome advice, thanks! Do you do a lot of cold approach day game? What's your success rate like?
Edit: funny you picked up on that FnF line lol. I thought it was a little much but wasn't sure.