Met cute girl at bar, clicked and had a good time. Talked about setting up a date, next couple days we texted and set up date for tonight getting drinks in public. She sounded excited using exclamation marks and all that shit. Then she lands this text on me, what to say? "Hey I’m wicked sorry but I just have so much school work I need to get done before the weekend so I’m not sure tonight is going to work out. I also don’t want to lead you on in any way so idk if going on a date is the best for me rn considering I’m moving back to mass in 2 months." Considering saying, "I mean I'm busy too but I made time for our date. You won't lead me on, I'm not looking for anything specifically, just for a cool girl I have chemistry with. We had a fun time together the other night and it would be a real shame for us to look back later and regret not going on a simple first date haha" Or should I keep it simple like it doesn't bother me, "Haha it's not that serious, maybe another time"
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I see where the miscommunication is in this. She's only there for two months so she just wants to hookup. but since you used the word “date” that word means get to know each other better on a deeper lvl to then lead to relationship.
I think you should've said. “Hey you down to hook up? 30min-1hr is cool depending what you can handle”
And honestly you can still use that line tomorrow randomly even after all this miscommunication. You used to many words. This type of girl you just tell her as is.
I attached a pic of a girl asking me to hook up. Only because obviously I gave it to her nonstop for 45min and she experience two orgasms. But as you can see I left her hanging because I was overwhelmed by two other girls as is so I ignored her.
I would say to wait and day and try that line. And hookup type girls are in n out unless they want the therapy to be longer.
I think you still got a chance for the lay just.go back at it tomorrow.
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Thanks man, at this point I'll just try random stuff. I didn't think she was hookup type of girl from our interaction but doesn't hurt to try
7 Posts (+6), 51 Cmts (+14)
Well it's a bit common sense at this point. She has two months left and girls love sex. It is especially getting banged for 30min to an hour.
Honestly, at this point, I would use the message above. Or say something. “You down to hook up/something casual ?”
And see how she responds to that. After all it's what she's looking for. She just want sex. Less dating.
Maybe take it a bit farther. “You think you can handle it for 45min to an hour because I take a bit to finish”
I gave this Irish girl 2x orgasms, 1 every 20min for a total of 40min plus 9 minutes for me to finally finish. Comes out to 49min of nonstop pounding. Make her dreams come true lol