This one was from a little earlier in the year, but I'm wondering if I should've just set up the date even though the frame seemed really bad? I haven't had a date since 2019 but I don't want to be too desperate. What do you all think? Thanks guys
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She basically asked you if your cool with being friendzoned and you agreed by saying you like meeting new people.
I love when girls ask me what I am looking for because I frame it sexual. I would say “i am looking to date/hook up/something casual and go from there/see where it goes/see how we match” etc you can play around with it.
I am not sure what her profile says she is looking for? And what are you looking for ?
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Her profile didn't say, but I'm looking for hookups first until I get more experience. Whenever I try to communicate that (not in this example), I get ghosted almost every time. I think my profile pics might be too nice guy, so I'll have to work on that.
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It depends how you go about it. I've tried once whole month just saying “down to hookup n chill?” and you'll get some girls that will meet up. Thing is it would work very few because I am relying on my 5/10 looks to get me there lol
Then you have the other way to get there which is stimulate her mind first with sexual frame n flirty. Then she will ask you what you looking for. Then you can say something casual / or hookup then it will be relied upon your looks and stimulation.